Tuesday, January 13, 2009
Free Suze Orman E-book on Oprah.com!
Sunday, January 11, 2009
First did-not-finish of 2009
It's like in The Dip...sometimes you just have to know when to quit.
I'm reading Suze Orman's 2009 Action Plan, the free e-book from Oprah's website. Also still working on this.
Has anyone else given up on anything this soon into the new year? Do you ever give up on books or do you muddle through? Please share!
Friday, January 9, 2009
Slow moving
I've also been reading a little bit of The Digital Photography Book by Scott Kelby. Trying to learn a bit about how to use my new camera. Tonight I am catching up on magazines - I'm a couple months behind on InStyle and Glamour - and blogs - I'm over 150 deep in my Google Reader.
I can't remember where I first saw a blurb about Jodi Picoult's new book, but I checked her website for details. Handle With Care will be released March 3, 2009, and it looks deep. I can't wait to read it! From Jodi's website:
When Charlotte and Sean O’Keefe’s daughter, Willow, is born with severe osteogenesis imperfecta, they are devastated – she will suffer hundreds of broken bones as she grows, a lifetime of pain. As the family struggles to make ends meet to cover Willow’s medical expenses, Charlotte thinks she has found an answer. If she files a wrongful birth lawsuit against her ob/gyn for not telling her in advance that her child would be born severely disabled, the monetary payouts might ensure a lifetime of care for Willow. But it means that Charlotte has to get up in a court of law and say in public that she would have terminated the pregnancy if she’d known about the disability in advance – words that her husband can’t abide, that Willow will hear, and that Charlotte cannot reconcile. And the ob/gyn she’s suing isn’t just her physician – it’s her best friend.
Handle With Care explores the knotty tangle of medical ethics and personal morality. When faced with the reality of a fetus who will be disabled, at which point should an OB counsel termination? Should a parent have the right to make that choice? How disabled is TOO disabled? And as a parent, how far would you go to take care of someone you love? Would you alienate the rest of your family? Would you be willing to lie to your friends, to your spouse, to a court? And perhaps most difficult of all - would you admit to yourself that you might not actually be lying?
Tuesday, January 6, 2009
Everyone is Beautiful - Katherine Center
From the back cover:
Lanie Coates's life is spinning out of control. She's piled everything she owns into a U-Haul and driven across the country with her husband, Peter, and their three little boys. She's left family, friends, and a comfortable life behind - all so her husband can realize his dream of becoming a professional musician. But somewhere in the eye of her personal hurricane it hits Lanie that she once had dreams, too. If only she could remember what they were.
Now, fifteen years, three babies, and more pounds than she's willing to count since she said "I do," Lanie desperately longs to feel like her old self again. It's time to fish her moxie out of the diaper pail and find the woman she was before motherhood capsized her entire existence. So Lanie sets change in motion - accidentally creativing waves that come to threaten everything she holds dear. In the end, Lanie must figure out once and for all how to find herself without losing everything else in the process.
When Lanie and her husband Peter pack up their boys and move from Texas to Cambridge, Mass., Lanie is just going through the motions. She doesn't have any plans for herself except to follow her 3 boys around, while her husband chases his dreams. While Peter is holed up in the house giving lessons, writing music and practicing, Lanie is hitting the parks and trying to navigate her way through a brand new city. She is delighted to discover a friend from high school, Amanda, lives in town. Amanda and her daughter become her saving grace and they meet up regularly. Shortly after Lanie is asked that dreaded question by another woman, "So, when are you due?" when she is not pregnant, Lanie becomes slightly obsessed with her body and joins a gym down the street. And that becomes her nightly routine after putting the boys to bed - a whole hour at the gym, just by herself, for herself.
Life takes a turn for Lanie when she receives her mother's old cameras in the mail and rediscovers her artisitic side. It doesn't take her long to get swept up in the world of photography, and she sets out taking photos of anything and everything. As she becomes more passionate about photography, she sets a goal to take and compile a book of photos on beautiful women.
With Lanie buried in her new found passion of photography, she continues to drift further away from her husband Peter, who she has been with for 15 years. She is also so wrapped up in her activities that she realizes, a little too late, that her photography instructor is in love with her. When he kisses her one night and Peter witnesses it, Lanie fears it is the end of their marriage. Unfortunately, Peter is off to California that night for a 3-week-long fellowship in his graduate program.
Lanie feels every emotion while he is gone, and when her family shows up from out of town, she begins to realize what she's been missing with Peter since they had children 4 years ago. She sets out on a red-eye flight to surprise her husband and tell him to come home. After Peter hears a bizarre and untrue tale of Lanie's sadness from her friend Amanda, he sets out for the airport himself and almost misses his wife. The two talk - really talk - for the first time in the entire novel and rediscover what made them fall in love in the first place.
I loved this book. (Maybe even better than her first book, The Bright Side of Disaster, which I reviewed here.) I felt like I was there with Lanie, watching her just move through each day until she found her own passion again. Then it was like watching a woman with tunnel vision. She was so consumed with photography that she forgot other things in life. But she came out a better person in the end because she found herself again. Perhaps my favorite part of the book was this part at the very end of the novel:
And here, after all that, is what I have come to believe about beauty: Laughter is beautiful. Kindness is beautiful. Cellulite is beautiful. Softness and plumpness and roundness are beautiful. Big boobs should have a big ass to go with them. It's more important to be interesting, to be vivid, and to be adventurous, than to sit pretty for pictures. A woman's soft tummy is a miracle of nature. Beauty comes from tenderness. Beauty comes from variety, from specificity, from the fact that no person in the world looks exactly like anyone else. Beauty comes from the tragedy that each person's life is destined to be lost to time. I believe women are too hard on themselves. I believe that when you love someone, she becomes beautiful to you. I believe the eyes see everything through the heart - and nothing in the world feels as good as resting them on someone you love.
Everyone is Beautiful will be released on February 17, 2009. I highly recommend reading it!
Sunday, January 4, 2009
2008 in Review
44 books read
57 to go to hit 101 in 1001 days
Favorite reads of '08 (click on the title for my review):
- The Audacity of Hope, Barack Obama
- The Last Lecture, Randy Pausch
- Lucky Man: A Memoir, Michael J. Fox
- Change of Heart, Jodi Picoult
- In The Woods, Tana French
- The Da Vinci Code, Dan Brown
- Good to Great*, Jim Collins
This was not my best year as far as completed books go. I read many more books in 2006 and 2007, but I started my career this year and it's been a struggle to find balance in work and life. I'm catching on, though, and just appreciating what time I do have to enjoy good books. (Another reason for the low number of books read - my new blog!) I also feel I wasted time on some so-so reads this year, and also with a couple of unfinished books.
My personal favorite posts from the year include the review of Barack Obama's memoir, and The Last Lecture. I was so inspired by Randy Pausch's book, and yes, it did make me cry. I posted some of these quotes on the original review I posted, but here are my favorites again.
p. 33 - "Have something to bring to the table, because that will make you more welcome."
p. 79 - "Brick walls are there for a reason. They give us a chance to show how badly we want something."
And now for a little looking ahead. My reading goal for 2009:
Simply to read more! No more excuses for not reading. I used to read before + after dinner and again before bed. I rarely, if ever, read right when I get home anymore, and sometimes I don't even read before bed. I got out of this habit when I started reading just about every blog under the sun. It's hard to keep up! But part of my own goal for '09 is to stop spending meaningless time on the internet. Reading good blogs and posting to my own are allowed, but no more pointless searching! It's not good for my eyes either (I think I need glasses, but that's another story).
What are your goals (reading + general) for 2009? I'd love to hear them!
Saturday, January 3, 2009
My Blogoversary!
I am still working on my 2008 reading recap, so bear with me. I'm blogging today simply because it's my blogoversary, and because my boyfriend and I got some great finds at Barnes + Noble yesterday, and who would I be if I didn't share with you?
Happy Blogoversary to me! Stay tuned for a 2008 wrap-up post.
Friday, January 2, 2009
The Da Vinci Code - Dan Brown
...and devoured it in a little more than 48 hours! It was so good! It's one of those books about which I'm now saying "what the *&$% took me so long to read that?!" I bought the book over 2 years ago before I moved to Florida, but I have no clue why I didn't pick it up. Don't ask. I have no answers.
What I know now though is what a brilliant piece of work it was. I loved reading about the art, the history, the religion, and I loved the suspense. As is typical of me, I had pegged the wrong person. (For once I'd just like to read a suspense novel and get the killer right!) Reading this book really made me want to go to Paris!
I realize I'm probably about the last person on earth to read this, so I'm not doing a complete review. More like just spilling my thoughts about this incredible read. Bear with me, my thoughts my jump around!
The most astonishing part of the book, and what really hooked me, despite not being a religious person, was all the talk of Jesus and Mary Magdalene and the possibility that they had a child. I was enthralled with this religious history and kept asking my boyfriend, "is that true?" (He's been dying for me to read this book so we can watch the movie!) I can't believe the research and the detail that went into this book, dragging us from place to place across Europe in search of the Holy Grail. It was also interesting to read so much about religion, and just to reiterate the fact that religion is the reason for so much hatred and violence, and always has been. It's easy to see why when people are so blinded by one thought they believe is true. It has always amazed me the amount of people who believe in something simply because it's what they were told.
Another amazing part of the book were the cryptic codes. I just couldn't wait to figure out what each one meant, and how it tied into the overall story. Man I looked forward to every place they went in Paris and beyond, racing against the clock through cathedrals and the like. The fact that Sophie's grandfather was such a master coder and left her all the clues to unscramble was unreal! What a legacy to leave behind...the fact that he was in a secret society and he entrusted in her the keystone to the most wanted piece of information of all time!
I loved this book. I can't believe it took me so long to read it. Definitely one of my favorite reads of all-time.
